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Returning to Our First Love in 2017 pt 10 – VOTD.02.21.17

They have healed the brokenness of My people superficially. [Jeremiah’s description of the false priests and prophets of his day.] Jeremiah 6:14

As we saw last time, we could talk about many symptoms of losing our first love—the presence or absence of dozens of things might indicate our first love is history. And this is where a lot of Christians and Christian teaching get it wrong. Just like an illness, treating the symptoms can bring some temporary relief, but it won’t cure the problem. The problem is much more complex.

The Message puts today’s verse this way: “My people are broken—shattered!—and they put on Band-Aids, saying, ‘It’s not so bad. You’ll be just fine.’ But they are not ‘just fine’!”

The Christian self-help bookshelves are full of books proclaiming the answer to all sorts of problems, when a lot of the symptoms really stem from a first-love problem. All they do is treat the symptoms. And it looks like it works until some new symptom pops up. So we go after that and think we’ve got it solved—it’s like trying to rid your yard of dandelions by cutting off the stems. They’ll keep popping up out of the turf because the root and seed in in the soil. Cutting off the symptom will never solve the problem. (more…)

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Returning to Our First Love in 2017 pt 9 – VOTD.02.20.17

But I have this against you, that you have left your first love.

Most of what we have talked about in our study of leaving our first love is how to identify that we already have left it. As Jesus’ words to the Ephesian church points out, they were unaware that there was even a problem. From their perspective, things were going great. Jesus commends them for several things before he drops the bomb: “But I have this against you, that you have left your first love.”

I’ve looked through various lists of “signs” that we have left our first love and found that they usually fall into one of seven categories. I’ve tried to touch on those during this study:

Time:
Somehow time with Jesus is compromise either by ministry, other busy-ness/distractions.

Performance:
Christianity has become more of a checklist than a relationship with Jesus. (more…)

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Returning to Our First Love in 2017 pt 7 – VOTD.02.13.17

Do not call to mind the former things, or ponder things of the past. Behold, I will do a new thing.  Isaiah 43:18,19

Consider how far you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first.  Revelation 2:5

True story: Three pastors were sharing lunch together the day before the church they all had served in celebrated a major anniversary. One was elderly and retired. Another was middle-aged and now serving in denominational leadership. The last was young, five-years-out-of seminary. The youngest remarked that it must have been amazing back in the day. To hear congregants tell it, the church was really on fire 25 years ago; three service, all so packed they had to set up folding chairs. The middle-aged pastor chuckled, “Is that what they’re talking about? Back in that day, all they could do was talk about how wonderful it was back when the church first began and there was such enthusiasm and team-spirit.” The elderly pastor practically choked on his sandwich. “Really!??!” he said. “Back when we first planted the church everyone was pining for the stability, programs, and budgets of the church we had broken off from.”

It’s easy to look back and conclude that things were better then. But nostalgia has its problems. For one thing, it simply makes us unhappy with the present. Living in what God did in the past can take our attention away from what God is doing today. (more…)

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Returning to Our First Love in 2017 pt 6 – VOTD.02.07.17

Be diligent that none of you fails to take hold of the grace of God; for if he does there can very easily spring up in him a bitter spirit which is not only bad in itself, but can also poison the lives of many others.  Hebrews 12:15

Returning to our first love. We’ve talked about loving the Lord with all our hearts and loving Him with all our souls, loving Him with all our mind and loving Him with our strength. But there are a few other areas that have Christians trapped in 2nd love experiences.

Firstly, bitterness. Christians are bitter because their trust has been betrayed, feeling cheated because their church hasn’t lived up to all the promises it makes; resentful because people with the “Christian” label don’t live like it; cynical because they know it should be better and it’s getting worse…

This is especially easy for people who have been in the faith a while. When everything was new, everyone seemed so godly, so fresh and loving. We were encouraged to follow the characteristics of these “super-Christians” to become a better Christian ourselves. It’s possible that that is reasonable short-term advice, but in the long run, it won’t last. As time goes on, we see kinks in the “super-Christians” and that can be pretty disheartening. Cynicism sets in…Bitterness isn’t far behind. (more…)

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Returning to Our First Love in 2017 pt 5 – VOTD.02.06.17

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength: this is the first (most important) commandment  Mark 12:30

Last time we talked about loving the Lord with all our hearts and loving Him with all our souls. Today I want to hit on loving Him with all our mind and strength.

“With all your mind.” When our minds, wills, and emotions wander from devotion to God, be careful. Our minds are so adept at hoodwinking ourselves with logic-plays that seem so air tight but miss the truth by miles.

As we saw last time, our relationship with God deepens as we spend time in communion with Him. But if we forsake this communion, our understanding of our true condition before God will grow dull, and often our minds will be the last to realize it. Our spirits are glum, we’re bored, we’re tread-milling through life and our minds are telling us that we’re OK, or that all we need is more discipline, a better job, an on-fire church… After all, maybe it’s normal to be bored in the Lord. Our minds rationalize right into a lost first-love and we never even know. (more…)

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Returning to Our First Love in 2017 pt 4 – VOTD.01.31.17

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength: this is the first (most important) commandment  Mark 12:30

“With all your heart”. Several things can indicate that we’re wandering from our first love (Rev 2:4). But a dead give-away is our hearts: We delight in someone or something else more than we delight in the Lord.

Have you ever been around someone who is so intent on their new job or their favorite sports team, or a new relationship or hobby…that it seems like whenever you’re with them the subject always turns to whatever they’re obsessing on? That’s their delight.

The idea of our first love is that our delight is in the Lord (Ps 37:4). Taking delight in the Lord means that our hearts truly find fulfillment, satisfaction and worth in Jesus. He’s foremost in our hearts, exceeding the bond of any other relationship, activity or pastime. Jesus identified the greatest of all commandments: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart…”.

If we find ourselves obsessing over other things, we really need to get God’s perspective on their role in our lives. Note: that thing we delight in is not necessarily wrong. God may have brought those things into our lives. But we still need His perspective or it can “own” us. And He doesn’t want that. (more…)

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Returning to Our First Love in 2017 pt 3 – VOTD.01.30.17

God has said: “I will never leave you, never will I forsake you.” So we say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?” Hebrews 13:5,6

Last time I mentioned that sometimes when I meditate on the words to the worship chorus, “How Great is Our God,” I insert the words ‘How big’ into the song. The size of our God has a lot to do with why we have so much trouble with the ‘first love’ thing. Loving a Big God takes less effort and less discipline, but it requires more faith.

Doctrinally speaking, we all know that God is all-powerful—He’s stronger than the devil; He’s stronger than our problems. But if you talk with many Christians who say they believe this, practically speaking, their devil is bigger than their God, and their problems are too. Some, because of their low expectations of God, have not only shied away from seeking their first love for themselves, they’ve actively discouraged other Christians from pursuing their Lover God.

After all, history shows us many times when Christians were rejected, persecuted, even martyred. When we focus on that, fear becomes our master and we end up walking by fear instead of by faith. History also shows us many times when Christians have seen God rescue them out of certain death. When we focus on that, our confidence in God is fed and we end up walking by faith instead of fear.

Those who focus on our need to protect ourselves and our flocks will always be overwhelmingly aware of the power of the devil. Their God will always be small in their experience of Him. But if our hearts are completely fixed to the One who promises to never leave us nor forsake us, our God grows in our experience and we find Him almighty. We live by faith, not by fear. (more…)

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Returning to Our First Love in 2017 pt 2 – VOTD.01.24.17

You have forsaken your first love. Revelation 2:4

 

“The good is ever the enemy of the best.” Think about it. Even in military warfare, an opponent will allow their enemy to win a series of small skirmishes to distract them from readiness for the big battle. They’re so busy taking and occupying acres that they miss the enemy advance on miles. Our enemy employs this tactic against Christians all the time. It’s one of the enemy’s oldest schemes.

However, the Bible tells us that we are not unaware of our enemy’s schemes. Wherever God is at work, you can be certain that the devil is not far behind. He is our enemy who like a roaring lion is seeking whoever he can devour. One of the enemy’s more common schemes is to “defeat us with victory.”

In the context of today’s verse, Jesus applauds his followers in Ephesus for many things: they were serving, discerning, and persevering (vv. 2-3). They were ministering to the practical needs around them; they pursued the truth of good doctrine with care; they faced opposition with diligence, standing firm in their faith. So what’s the problem? (more…)

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Returning to Our First Love in 2017 pt 1 – VOTD.01.23.17

As newborn babes, desire the pure milk of the word, that you may grow thereby, if indeed you have tasted that the Lord is gracious. 1 Peter 2:2,3

Some of us can remember what it was like when we were new to the Christian faith; that’s why I always feel a little awkward thinking about “returning to (my) first love”. I’m afraid my “first-love” days were pretty uninspiring. But I’ve learned something along the way…

Returning to our first love isn’t so much becoming a Bible-ignorant newbie again, but growing in true and deep intimacy and passion for the Jesus we once had a superficial (though real) crush on. Babies aren’t supposed to be adults. They have diapers—lots of diapers. They are self-focused. They need constant attention and lots of milk—and spit up a lot of the milk that their caregivers so selflessly supply. That’s all as it should be—for babies. For spiritual babes, too.

But babies don’t just turn into adults one day—not without going through childhood and adolescence. Those teen years can be pretty tough…and when they finally find themselves out in the “real world” with “adult” plastered on their foreheads they’re still growing up, really. (more…)

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Who Will We Serve in 2017 – VOTD.01.17.17

He won’t let the wicked rule over his righteous people; if he did, they might lead righteous themselves to do evil. Psalms 125:3

One of the things I love about the Psalms is all the zingers that are hidden in the middle of otherwise predictable praise and adoration. Sprinkled throughout the Psalms are little gems, expressing a truth that it’s taken for granted the reader already knows, and therefore provides little explanation.

Today’s verse is like that. Surrounded by verses about the safety net the Lord provides from our enemies, this verse happens to mention that He is also moving to protect us from those in authority over us… lest they lead us into sin.

We don’t have to read Old Testament history for long (or any other history for that matter), in order to see that evil leaders lead whole nations astray. False teachers lead churches astray. False prophecies cause more problems than we’d think, even when the prophets are God’s real prophets and their prophesies prove to be untrue, the result of which may seem insignificant and inconsequential.

Now, you and I might be bewildered why “everyone else” would follow these evil leaders / teachers / prophets, but apparently enough people do to tip the scales. So God promises to deliver his righteous ones from the authority of these evil and false entities, even while He makes no such promise for “everyone else”. (more…)

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